In business, TIME is one of the few truly equal opportunity employers. We all receive the same amount of it and each of us is personally responsible for how we use the time we are given.
What is your relationship to time? Is time your friend or adversary? Does time pass slowly or quickly for you? Do you know where your time goes or does it elude you? The following are several common approaches to time. See if you identify with any of them:
1. Time is a Tireless Taskmaster - Your attitude towards time is very serious. You expect yourself to always use time constructively or productively. You spend your time constantly working, never relaxing. Time makes you feel burdened, tense, or heavy.
2. Your Time is More Important Than Mine - Your attitude towards time is unfocused and undeserving. You spend more time than you want servicing other people's needs. You have difficulty saying "no" to requests/demands of otehrs. Times makes you feel tired, drained or resentful.
3. Time Should Give Me Special Treatment - Your attitude towards time is demanding and willful. You consistently underestimate how long it takes to accomplish things. You pack in "extra" activities which make you late for appointments/events. You expect time to speed up or slow down for you. Time makes you feel agitated, rushed and frustrated.
4. Time is on My Side - Your attitude towards time is respectful and grounded. You make and consistently pursue long range plans. You arrive early for appointments. You make promises according to a realistic assessment of time involved. Time leaves you feeling calm, centered and steady.
To value your time
...track it. Find out how you actually use your time every day. Once you know how your time is spent, you can decide what changes/adjustments you want to make.
To maximize your time
...observe your internal clock. Schedule projects and events that require strong powers of concentration during your peak hours. Perform more menial tasks during low energy periods.
To enjoy your time...
...build mistakes and delays into your day. Allow yourself a few extra minutes between appointments. Give yourself time to savor the people and places around you, instead of constantly racing to beat the clock.
Sincerely,
Katherine and Kathi
Bestselling Authors of Working With You Is Killing Me
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